That which is the only discommodity of speaking in a
clear matter, the abundance of argument that
presses to be utter'd, and the suspense of judgment
what to choose, and how in the multitude of reason
to be not tedious, is the greatest difficulty which I
expect here to meet with. Yet much hath bin said
formerly concerning this Law in the Doctrine of
Divorce. Wherof I shall repeat no more than what is
necessary. Two things are here doubted: First, and
that but of late, whether this be a Law or no; next,
what this reason of uncleanness might mean, for
which the Law is granted. That it is a plain Law no
man ever question'd, till Vatablus within these
hundred years profess'd Hebrew at Paris, a man of
no Religion, as Beza deciphers him. Yet some there
be who follow him, not only against the current of all
Antiquity both Jewish and Christian, but the
evidence of Scripture also, Malach. 2. 16. Let him
who hateth put away, saith the Lord God of Israel.
Altho' this place also hath bin tamper'd with, as if it
were to be thus render'd, The Lord God saith, that he
hateth putting away. But this new interpretation
rests only in the Authority of Junius; for neither
Calvin, nor Vatablus himself, nor any other known
Divine so interpreted before. And they of best note
who have translated the Scripture since, and Diodati
for one, follow not his reading. And perhaps they
might reject it, if for nothing else, for these two
Reasons: First, it introduces in a new manner the
person of God speaking less Majestic than he is ever
wont: When God speaks by his Prophet, he ever
speaks in the first person, therby signifying his
Majesty and Omnipresence. He would have said, I
hate puttting away, saith the Lord; and not sent
word by Malachi in a sudden fallen stile, The Lord God
saith that he hateth putting away: that were the
phrase to shrink the glorious Omnipresence of God
speaking, into a kind of circumscriptive absence. And
were as if a Herald in the Achievement of a King,
should commit the indecorum to set his helmet
sideways and close, not full-faced and open in the
posture of direction and command. We cannot think
therfore that this last Prophet would thus in a new
fashion absent the person of God from his own words,
as if he came not along with them. For it would also
be wide from the proper scope of his place: he that
reads attentively will soon perceive, that God blames
not here the Jews for putting away their wives, but
for keeping strange Concubines, to the profaning of
Judah's holiness, and the vexation of their Hebrew
wives, v. 11, and 14. Judah hath married the
daughter of a strange God: And exhorts them rather
to put their wives away whom they hate, as the Law
permitted, than to keep them under such affronts.
And it is receiv'd that this Prophet liv'd in those
times of Ezra and Nehemiah (nay by some is thought
to be Ezra himself) when the People were forc'd by
these two Worthies to put their strange wives away.
So that what the story of those times, and the plain
context of the 11 verse, from whence this rebuke
begins, can give us to conjecture of the obscure and
curt Ebraisms that follow, this Prophet does not
forbid putting away, but forbids keeping, and
commands putting away according to God's Law,
which is the plainest Interpreter both of what God
will, and what he can best suffer. Thus much evinces
that God there commanded Divorce by Malachi, and
this confirms that he commands it also here by
Moses.
I may the less doubt to mention by the way an
Author, tho' counted Apocryphal, yet of no small
account for Piety and Wisdom, the Author of
Ecclesiasticus. Which Book, begun by the Grand-
father of that Jesus who is call'd the Son of Sirach,
might have bin written in part, not much after the
time when Malachi liv'd; if we compute by the Reign
of Ptolemaeus Euergetes. It professes to explain the
Law and the Prophets; and yet exhorts us to Divorce
for incurable causes, and to cut off from the flesh
those whom it there describes, Ecclesiastic. 25. 26.
Which doubtless that wise and ancient Writer would
never have advis'd, had either Malachi so lately
forbidden it, or the Law by a full precept not left it
lawful. But I urge not this for want of better proof;
our Saviour himself allows Divorce to be a command,
Mark 10. 3, 5. Neither do they weaken this assertion,
who say it was only a sufferance, as shall be prov'd
at large in that place of Mark. But suppose it were
not a written Law, they never can deny it was a
custom, and so effect nothing. For the same reasons
that induce them why it should not be a Law, will
straiten them as hard why it should be allow'd a
custom. All custom is either evil or not evil; if it be
evil, this is the very end of Lawgiving, to abolish evil
customs by wholesom Laws; unless we imagine Moses
weaker than every negligent and startling Politician.
If it be, as they make this of Divorce to be, a custom
against nature, against justice, against charity, now,
upon this most impure custom tolerated, could the
God of pureness erect a nice and precise Law, that
the Wife married after Divorce could not return to
her former Husband, as being defiled? What was all
this following niceness worth, built upon the lewd
foundation of a wicked thing allow'd? In few words
then, this custom of Divorce either was allowable or
not allowable; if not allowable, how could it be
allow'd? if it were allowable, all who understand Law
will consent, that a tolerated custom hath the force
of a Law, and is indeed no other but an unwritten
Law, as Justinian calls it, and is as prevalent as any
written statute. So that their shift of turning this
Law into a custom wheels about, and gives the onset
upon their own flanks; not disproving, but
concluding it to be the more firm Law, because it was
without controversy a granted custom; as clear in
the reason of common life, as those given rules
wheron Euclides builds his propositions.
Thus being every way a Law of God, who can
without blasphemy doubt it to be a just and pure
Law? Moses continually disavows the giving them
any statute, or judgment, but what he learnt of God;
of whom also in his Song he saith, Deut. 32. He is the
rock, his work is perfect, all his ways are judgment, a
God of truth and without iniquity, just and right is
he. And David testifies, the judgments of the Lord are
true and righteous altogether. Not partly right and
partly wrong, much less wrong altogether, as Divines
of now-a-days dare censure them. Moses again, of
that people to whom he gave this Law, saith, Deut.
14. Ye are the children of the Lord your God, the
Lord hath chosen thee to be a peculiar people to
himself above all the nations upon the earth, that
thou shouldest keep all his Commandments, and be
high in praise, in name, and in honour, holy to the
Lord, Chap. 26. And in the fourth, Behold I have
taught you statutes and judgments, even as the Lord
my God commanded me, keep therfore and do them.
For this is your wisdom and your understanding in
the sight of Nations that shall hear all these Statutes,
and say, surely this great Nation is a wise and
understanding people. For what Nation is there so
great, who hath God so nigh to them? and what
Nation that hath Statutes and Judgments so
righteous as all this Law which I set before you this
day? Thus whether we look at the purity and justice
of God himself, the jealousy of his honour among
other Nations, the holiness and moral perfection
which he intended by his Law to teach this people, we
cannot possibly think how he could indure to let
them slug and grow inveterately wicked, under base
allowances, and whole adulterous lives by
dispensation. They might not eat, they might not
touch an unclean thing; to what hypocrisy then were
they train'd up, if by prescription of the same Law,
they might be unjust, they might be adulterous for
term of life? forbid to soil their garments with a coy
imaginary pollution, but not forbid, but
countenanced and animated by Law to soil their
Souls with deepest defilements. What more unlike to
God, what more like that God should hate, than that
his Law should be so curious to wash vessels, and
vestures, and so careless to leave unwash'd,
unregarded, so foul a scab of Egypt in their Souls?
what would we more? the Statutes of the Lord are all
pure and just: and if all, then this of Divorce.
Because he hath found some uncleanness in her. ]
That we may not esteem this Law to be a meer
authorizing of licence, as the Pharisees took it, Moses
adds the reason, for some uncleanness found. Some
hertofore have bin so ignorant, as to have thought,
that this uncleanness means Adultery. But Erasmus,
who for having writ an excellent Treatise of Divorce,
was wrote against by some burly standard Divine
perhaps of Cullen, or of Louvain, who calls himself
Phimostomus, shews learnedly out of the Fathers,
with other Testimonies and Reasons, that
uncleanness is not here so understood; defends his
former work, though new to that age, and perhaps
counted licentious, and fears not to ingage all his
fame on the Argument. Afterward, when Expositors
began to understand the Hebrew Text, which they
had not done of many ages before, they translated
word for word not uncleanness, but the nakedness of
any thing; and considering that nakedness is usually
referr'd in Scripture to the mind as well as to the
body, they constantly expound it any defect,
annoyance, or ill quality in nature, which to be join'd
with, makes life tedious, and such company worse
than solitude. So that here will be no cause to vary
from the general consent of exposition, which gives
us freely that God permitted divorce, for whatever
was unalterably distastful, whether in body or mind.
But with this admonishment, that if the Roman Law,
especially in contracts and dowries, left many things
to equity with these cautions, ex fide bona, quod
equius melius erit, ut inter bonos bene agitur, we
will not grudge to think that God intended not licence
here to every humour, but to such remediless
grievances as might move a good and honest and
faithful man then to divorce, when it can no more be
peace or comfort to either of them continuing thus
join'd. And although it could not be avoided, but
that Men of hard hearts would abuse this liberty, yet
doubtless it was intended, as all other privileges in
Law are, to good men principally, to bad only by
accident. Also that the Sin was not in the
permission, nor simply in the action of Divorce (for
then the permitting also had bin sin) but only in the
abuse. But that this Law should, as it were, be wrung
from God and Moses, only to serve the
hardheartedness, and the lust of injurious men, how
remote it is from all sense, and law, and honesty, and
therfore surely from the meaning of Christ, shall
abundantly be manifest in due order.
Now although Moses needed not to add other
reason of this Law than that one there exprest, yet
to these ages wherin Canons, and Scotisms, and
Lumbard Laws, have dull'd, and almost obliterated
the lively Sculpture of ancient reason, and
humanity, it will be requisit to heap reason upon
reason, and all little enough to vindicate the
whiteness and the innocence of this divine Law, from
the calumny it finds at this day, of being a door to
licence and confusion. Whenas indeed there is not a
judicial point in all Moses, consisting of more true
equity, high wisdom, and god-like pity than this Law;
not derogating, but preserving the honour and peace
of Marriage, and exactly agreeing with the sense and
mind of that institution of Genesis.
For first, if Marriage be but an ordain'd relation,
as it seems not more, it cannot take place above the
prime dictates of nature; and if it be of natural right,
yet it must yield to that which is more natural, and
before it by eldership and precedence in nature.
Now it is not natural that Hugh marries Beatrice, or
Thomas Rebecca, being only a civil contract, and full
of many chances; but that these men seek them meet
helps, that only is natural, and that they espouse
them such, that only is Marriage. But if they find
them neither fit helps nor tolerable society, what
thing more natural, more original and first in nature
than to depart from that which is irksom, grievous,
actively hateful, and injurious even to hostility,
especially in a conjugal respect, wherin antipathies
are invincible, and where the forc'd abiding of the
one can be no true good, no real comfort to the
other? For if he find no contentment from the other,
how can he return it from himself? or no acceptance,
how can he mutually accept? What more equal, more
pious than to untie a civil knot for a natural enmity
held by violence from parting, to dissolve an
accidental conjunction of this or that Man and
Woman, for the most natural and most necessary
disagreement of meet from unmeet, guilty from
guiltless, contrary from contrary? It being certain
that the mystical and blessed unity of Marriage can
be no way more unhallow'd and profan'd, than by
the forcible uniting of such disunions and
separations. Which if we see oftimes they cannot join
or piece up to a common friendship, or to a willing
conversation in the same house, how should they
possibly agree to the most familiar and united amity
of Wedloc? Abraham and Lot, though dear friends
and brethren in a strange Country, chose rather to
part asunder, than to infect their friendship with the
strife of their servants: Paul and Barnabas, join'd
together by the Holy Ghost to a spiritual work,
thought it better to separate when once they grew at
variance. If these great Saints, join'd by Nature,
Friendship, Religion, high Providence, and
Revelation, could not so govern a casual difference, a
sudden passion, but must in wisdom divide from the
outward duties of a Friendship, or a Colleagueship in
the same family, or in the same journey, lest it
should grow to a worse division; can any thing be
more absurd and barbarous, than that they whom
only Error, Casualty, Art, or Plot, hath joined, should
be compell'd, not against a sudden passion, but
against the permanent and radical discords of
Nature, to the most intimate and incorporating
duties of Love and Imbracement, therin only rational
and human, as they are free and voluntary; being
else an abject and servile yoke, scarce not brutish?
And that there is in man such a peculiar sway of
liking or disliking in the affairs of Matrimony, is
evidently seen before Marriage among those who can
be friendly, can respect each other, yet to marry
each other would not for any perswasion. If then
this unfitness and disparity be not till after Marriage
discover'd, through many Causes, and Colours, and
Concealments, that may overshadow; undoubtedly it
will produce the same effects, and perhaps with more
vehemence, that such a mistaken pair would give the
world to be unmarried again. And their condition
Solomon to the plain justification of Divorce
expresses, Prov. 30. 21, 23. where he tells us of his
own accord, that a hated, or a hateful Woman, when
she is married, is a thing for which the earth is
disquieted, and cannot bear it: thus giving divine
testimony to this divine Law, which bids us nothing
more than is the first and most innocent lesson of
Nature, to turn away peaceably from what afflicts,
and hazards our destruction; especially when our
staying can do no good, and is expos'd to all evil.
Secondly, It is unjust that any Ordinance,
ordain'd to the good and comfort of Man, where that
end is missing, without his fault, should be forc'd
upon him to an unsufferable misery and discomfort,
if not commonly ruin. All Ordinances are establisht
in their end; the end of Law is the vertue, is the
righteousness of Law: and therfore him we count an
ill Expounder who urges Law against the intention
therof. The general end of every Ordinance, of every
severest, every divinest, even of Sabbath, is the
good of Man; yea his temporal good not excluded. But
Marriage is one of the benignest ordinances of God to
man, wherof both the general and particular end is
the peace and contentment of man's mind, as the
institution declares. Contentment of body they
grant, which if it be defrauded, the plea of frigidity
shall divorce: But here lies the fathomless absurdity,
that granting this for bodily defect, they will not
grant it for any defect of the mind, any violation of
religious or civil society. Whenas, if the argument of
Christ be firm against the ruler of the Synagogue,
Luke 13. Thou hypocrite, doth not each of you on
the Sabbath-day loosen his Ox or his Ass from the
stall, and lead him to watering, and should not I
unbind a daughter of Abraham from this bond of
Satan? It stands as good here; ye have regard in
Marriage to the grievance of body, should you not
regard more the grievances of the mind, seeing the
Soul as much excels the body, as the outward man
excels the Ass, and more? for that animal is yet a
living creature, perfect in itself; but the body
without the Soul is a meer senseless trunk. No
ordinance therfore given particularly to the good
both spiritual and temporal of man, can be urged
upon him to his mischief: and if they yield this to the
unworthier part, the body, whereabout are they in
their principles, that they yield it not to the more
worthy the mind of a good man?
Thirdly, As no Ordinance, so no Covenant, no not
between God and Man, much less between Man and
Man, being, as all are, intended to the good of both
Parties, can hold to the deluding or making miserable
of them both. For Equity is understood in every
Covenant, even between enemies, tho' the terms be
not exprest. If Equity therfore made it, Extremity
may dissolve it. But Marriage, they use to say, is the
Covenant of God. Undoubted: and so in any Covenant
frequently called in Scripture, wherin God is call'd to
witness: The Covenant of Friendship between David
and Jonathan, is call'd the Covenant of the Lord, 1
Sam. 20. The Covenant of Zedekiah with the King of
Babel, a Covenant to be doubted whether lawful or
no, yet in respect of God invok'd therto is call'd the
Oath, and the Covenant of God, Ezek. 17. Marriage
also is call'd the Covenant of God, Prov. 2. 17. Why,
but as before, because God is the witness therof, Mal.
2. 14. So that this denomination adds nothing to the
Covenant of Marriage, above any other civil and
solemn contract: nor is it more indissoluble for this
reason than any other against the end of its own
Ordination; nor is any Vow or Oath to God exacted
with such a rigour, where superstition reigns not.
For look how much divine the Covenant is, so much
the more equal, so much the more to be expected
that every Article therof should be fairly made good;
no false dealing, or unperforming should be thrust
upon men without redress, if the covenant be so
divine. But Faith, they say, must be kept in
Covenant, tho' to our damage. I answer, that only
holds true, where the other side performs; which
failing, he is no longer bound. Again, this is true,
when the keeping of Faith can be of any use or
benefit to the other. But in Marriage, a league of
Love and Willingness, if Faith be not willingly kept, it
scarce is worth the keeping; nor can be any delight to
a generous mind, with whom it is forcibly kept: and
the question still supposes the one brought to an
impossibility of keeping it as he ought, by the other's
default; and to keep it formally, not only with a
thousand shifts and dissimulations, but with open
anguish, perpetual sadness and disturbance, no
willingness, no cheerfulness, no contentment, cannot
be any good to a mind not basely poor and shallow,
with whom the contract of Love is so kept. A
Covenant therfore brought to that pass, is on the
unfaulty side without injury dissolv'd.
Fourthly, The Law is not to neglect men under
greatest sufferances, but to see Covenants of
greatest moment faithfullest perform'd. And what
injury comparable to that sustain'd in a frustrate
and false-dealing Marriage, to lose, for another's
fault against him, the best portion of his temporal
comforts, and of his spiritual too, as it may fall out?
It was the Law, that for man's good and quiet,
reduc'd things to propriety, which were at first in
common; how much more Law-like were it to assist
Nature in disappropriating that evil which by
continuing proper becomes destructive? But he
might have bewar'd. So he might in any other
Covenant, wherin the Law does not constrain Error
to so dear a forfeit. And yet in these matters wherin
the wisest are apt to err, all the wariness that can
be, ofttimes nothing avails. But the Law can compel
the offending party to be more duteous. Yes, if all
these kind of offences were fit in public to be
complain'd on, or being compell'd were any
satisfaction to a mate not sottish, or malicious. And
these injuries work so vehemently, that if the Law
remedy them not, by separating the cause when no
way else will pacify, the person not reliev'd betakes
him either to such disorderly courses, or to such a
dull dejection as renders him either infamous, or
useless to the service of God and his Country.
Fifthly, The Law is to tender the liberty and the
human dignity of them that live under the Law,
whether it be the man's right above the woman, or
the woman's just appeal against wrong and
servitude. But the duties of Marriage contain in
them a duty of Benevolence, which to do by
compulsion against the Soul, where there can be
neither peace, nor joy, nor love, but an enthralment
to one who either cannot, or will not be mutual in
the godliest and the civilest ends of that society, is
the ignoblest, and the lowest slavery that a human
shape can be put to. This Law therfore justly and
piously provides against such an unmanly task of
bondage as this. The Civil Law, tho' it favour'd the
setting free of a slave, yet if he prov'd ungrateful to
his Patron, reduc'd him to a servile condition. If that
Law did well to reduce from liberty to bondage for an
ingratitude not the greatest, much more became it
the Law of God to enact the restorement of a free-
born man from an unpurpos'd, and unworthy
bondage, to a rightful liberty, for the most unnatural
fraud and ingratitude that can be committed against
him. And if the Civilian Emperor in his title of
Donations, permit the giver to recall his gift from him
who proves unthankful towards him; yea, tho' he
had subscrib'd, and sign'd in the deed of the gift, not
to recall it, though for this very cause of ingratitude;
with much more equity doth Moses permit here the
giver to recall no petty gift, but the gift of himself
from one who most injuriously and deceitfully uses
him against the main ends and condition of his giving
himself, exprest in God's institution.
Sixthly, Altho' there be nothing in the plain
words of this Law, that seems to regard the afflictions
of a Wife, how great soever; yet Expositors
determine, and doubtless determine rightly, that God
was not uncompassionate of them also in the framing
of this Law. For should the rescript of Antoninus in
the Civil Law give release to servants flying for
refuge to the Emperor's statue, by giving leave to
change their cruel Masters; and should God, who in
his Law also is good to injur'd servants, by granting
them their freedom in divers cases, not consider the
wrongs and miseries of a wife, which is no servant?
Tho' herin the counter-sense of our Divines, to me, I
must confess seems admirable; who teach that God
gave this as a merciful Law, not for Man whom he
here names, and to whom by name he gives this
power; but for the Wife, whom he names not, and to
whom by name he gives no power at all. For
certainly if Man be liable to injuries in Marriage, as
well as Woman, and Man be the worthier Person, it
were a preposterous Law to respect only the less
worthy; her whom God made for Marriage, and not
him at all for whom Marriage was made.
Seventhly, The Law of Marriage gives place to the
power of parents: for we hold, that consent of
Parents not had, may break the Wedloc, tho' else
accomplisht. It gives place to masterly Power, for the
Master might take away from an Hebrew servant
which he gave him, Exod. 21. If it be answer'd, that
the Marriage of Servants is no Matrimony: 'tis
reply'd, That this in the ancient Roman Law is true,
not in the Mosaic. If it be added, she was a Stranger,
not an Hebrew, therfore easily divorc'd; it will be
answer'd, That Strangers not being Canaanites, and
they also being Converts, might be lawfully married,
as Rahab was. And her conversion is here suppos'd;
for an Hebrew master could not lawfully give an
Heathen wife to an Hebrew servant. However, the
divorcing of an Israelitish woman was as easy by the
Law, as the divorcing of a Stranger, and almost in the
same words permitted, Deut. 24. and Deut. 21.
Lastly, it gives place to the right of War, for a captive
Woman lawfully marry'd, and afterwards not
belov'd, might be dismiss'd, only without ransom,
Deut. 21. If Marriage be dissolv'd by so many
exterior powers, not superior, as we think, why may
not the power of Marriage it self, for its own peace
and honour, dissolve it self, where the persons
wedded be free persons? Why may not a greater and
more natural power complaining dissolve Marriage?
For the ends why Matrimony was ordain'd, are
certainly and by all Logic above all the Ordinance it
self; why may not that dissolve Marriage, without
which that institution hath no force at all? For the
prime ends of Marriage, are the whole strength and
validity therof, without which Matrimony is like an
Idol, nothing in the world. But those former
allowances were all for hardness of heart. Be that
granted, until we come where to understand it
better: if the Law suffer thus far the obstinacy of a
bad man, is it not more righteous here, to do
willingly what is but equal, to remove in season the
extremities of a good man?
Eighthly, If a man had deflowr'd a Virgin, or
brought an ill name on his Wife that she came not a
Virgin to him, he was amerc'd in certain shekels of
Silver, and bound never to divorce her all his days,
Deut. 22. which shews that the Law gave no liberty to
divorce, where the injury was palpable; and that the
absolute forbidding to divorce, was in part the
punishment of a deflowerer, and a defamer. Yet not
so but that the wife questionless might depart when
she pleases. Otherwise this course had not so much
righted her, as delivered her up to more spight and
cruel usage. This Law therfore doth justly
distinguish the privilege of an honest and blameless
man in the matter of divorce from the punishment of
a notorious offender.
Ninthly, Suppose it should be imputed to a man
that he was too rash in his choice, and why he took
not better heed, let him now smart, and bear his
folly as he may; altho' the Law of God, that terrible
Law, do not thus upbraid the infirmities and
unwilling mistakes of man in his integrity: But
suppose these and the like proud aggravations of
some stern hypocrite, more merciless in his mercies,
than any literal Law in the vigour of severity, must
be patiently heard; yet all Law, and God's Law
especially grants every-where to error easy
remitments, even where the utmost penalty exacted
were no undoing. With great reason therfore and
mercy doth it here not torment an error, if it be so,
with the indurance of a whole life lost to all houshold
comfort and society, a punishment of too vast and
huge dimension for an error, and the more
unreasonable for that the like objection may be
oppos'd against the plea of divorcing for Adultery; he
might have lookt better before to her breeding under
religious parents: why did he not more diligently
inquire into her manners, into what company she
kept? every glance of her eye, every step of her gait
would have prophesy'd adultery, if the quick scent of
these discerners had been took along; they had the
divination to have foretold you all this, as they have
now the divinity to punish an error inhumanly. As
good reason to be content, and forc'd to be content
with your Adulteress, if these objecters might be the
judges of human frailty. But God, more mild and
good to man, than man to his brother, in all this
liberty given to divorcement, mentions not a word of
our past errors and mistakes, if any were, which
these men objecting from their own inventions,
prosecute with all violence and iniquity. For if the
one be to look so narrowly what he takes, at the peril
of ever keeping, why should not the other be made
as wary what is promis'd, by the peril of losing? for
without those promises the treaty of Marriage had
not proceeded. Why should his own error bind him,
rather than the other's fraud acquit him? Let the
buyer beware, saith the old Law-beaten termer.
Belike then there is no more honesty, nor ingenuity
in the bargain of a Wedloc, than in the buying of a
Colt: We must it seems drive it on as craftily with
those whose affinity we seek, as if they were a pack
of sale-men and complotters. But the deceiver
deceives himself in the unprosperous Marriage, and
therin is sufficiently punisht. I answer, that the
most of those who deceive, are such as either
understand not, or value not the true purposes of
Marriage; they have the prey they seek, not the
punishment: yet say it prove to them some cross, it
is not equal that error and fraud should be linkt in
the same degree of forfeiture, but rather that error
should be acquitted, and fraud bereav'd his morsel, if
the mistake were not on both sides; for then on both
sides the acquitment will be reasonable, if the
bondage be intolerable; which this Law graciously
determines, not unmindful of the wife, as was
granted willingly to the common Expositors, tho'
beyond the letter of this Law, yet not beyond the
spirit of charity.
Tenthly, Marriage is a solemn thing, some say a
holy, the resemblance of Christ and his Church? and
so indeed it is where the persons are truly religious;
and we know all sacred things not perform'd
sincerely as they ought, are no way acceptable to
God in their outward formality. And that wherin it
differs from personal duties, if they be not truly
done, the fault is in our selves; but Marriage to be a
true and pious Marriage is not in the single power of
any person; the essence wherof, as of all other
Covenants, is in relation to another, the making and
maintaining causes therof are all mutual, and must
be a communion of spiritual and temporal comforts.
If then either of them cannot, or obstinately will not
be answerable in these duties, so as that the other
can have no peaceful living, or endure the want of
what he justly seeks, and sees no hope, then strait
from that dwelling love, which is the soul of Wedloc,
takes his flight, leaving only some cold performances
of civil and common respects; but the true bond of
Marriage, if there were ever any there, is already
burst like a rotten thread. Then follows
dissimulation, suspicion, false colours, false pretences
and worse than these, disturbance, annoyance,
vexation, sorrow, temptation even in the faultless
person, weary of himself, and of all actions public or
domestic; then comes disorder, neglect, hatred, and
perpetual strife, all these the enemies of Holiness and
Christianity, and every one persisted in, a
remediless violation of Matrimony. Therfore God who
hates all feigning and formality, where there should
be all faith and sincereness, and abhors the
inevitable discord, where there should be greater
concord, when thro' another's default, faith and
concord cannot be, counts it neither just to punish
the innocent with the Transgressor, nor holy, nor
honourable for the sanctity of Marriage, that should
be the union of peace and love to be made the
commitment, and close fight of enmity and hate. And
therfore doth in this Law, what best agrees with his
goodness, loosning a sacred thing to peace and
charity, rather than binding it to hatred and
contention; loosning only the outward and formal tie
of that which is already inwardly and really broken,
or else was really never join'd.
Eleventhly, One of the chief matrimonial ends is
said to seek a holy seed; but where an unfit Marriage
administers continual cause of hatred and distemper,
there, as was heard before, cannot choose but much
unholiness abide. Nothing more unhallows a man,
more unprepares him to the service of God in any
duty, than a habit of wrath and perturbation, arising
from the importunity of troublous causes never
absent. And where the houshold stands in this
plight, what love can there be to the unfortunate
issue, what care of their breeding, which is of main
conducement to their being holy? God therfore
knowing how unhappy it would be for children to be
born in such a family, gives this Law either as a
prevention, that being an unhappy pair, they should
not add to tbe unhappy parents, or else as a remedy
that if there be children, while they are fewest, they
may follow either parent, as shall be agreed, or
judg'd, from the house of hatred and discord to place
of more holy and peaceable education.
Twelfthly, All Law is available to some good end,
but the final prohibition of Divorce avails to no good
end, causing only the endless aggravation of evil, and
therfore this permission of divorce was given to the
Jews by the wisdom and fatherly providence of God;
who knew that Law cannot command love, without
which Matrimony hath no true being, no good, no
solace, nothing of God's instituting, nothing but so
sordid and so low, as to be disdain'd of any generous
person. Law cannot inable natural inability either of
body, or mind, which gives the grievance; it cannot
make equal those inequalities, it cannot make fit
those unfitnesses; and where there is malice more
than defect of nature, it cannot hinder ten thousand
injuries, and bitter actions of despight, too suttle and
too unapparent for Law to deal with. And while it
seeks to remedy more outward wrongs, it exposes
the injur'd person to other more inward and more
cutting. All these evils unavoidably will redound
upon the children, if any be, and upon the whole
family. It degenerates and disorders the best spirits,
leaves them to unsettled imaginations, and degraded
hopes, careless of themselves, their housholds and
their friends, unactive to all public service, dead to
the Commonwealth; wherin they are by one mishap,
and no willing trespass of theirs, outlaw'd from all
the benefits and comforts of married life and
posterity. It confers as little to the honour and
inviolable keeping of Matirmony, but sooner stirs up
temptations and occasions to secret adulteries and
unchaste roving. But it maintains public honesty.
Public folly rather; who shall judge of public
honesty? The Law of God and of ancientest
Christians, and all Civil Nations, or the illegitimate
Law of Monks and Canonists, the most malevolent,
most unexperienc'd, most incompetent Judges of
Matrimony?
These reasons, and many more that might be
alleg'd, afford us plainly to perceive, both what good
cause this Law had to do for good men in mischances,
and what necessity it had to suffer accidentally the
hard-heartedness of bad men, which could not
certainly discover, or discovering, could not subdue,
no nor endeavour to restrain without multiplying
sorrow to them, for whom all was indeavour'd. The
guiltless therfore were not depriv'd their needful
redresses, and the hard hearts of others
unchastisable in those judicial Courts, were so
remitted there, as bound over to the higher Session
of Conscience.
Notwithstanding all this, there is a loud exception
against this Law of God, nor can the holy Author
save his Law from this exception, that it opens a door
to all licence and confusion. But this is the rudest, I
was almost saying the most graceless objection, and
with the least reverence to God and Moses, that could
be devis'd: This is to cite God before man's Tribunal,
to arrogate a wisdom and holiness above him. Did not
God then foresee what event of licence or confusion
could follow? Did not he know how to ponder these
abuses with more prevailing respects, in the most
even ballance of his justice and pureness, till these
correctors came up to shew him better? The Law is,
if it stir up sin any way, to stir it up by forbidding, as
one contrary excites another, Rom. 7. but if it once
come to provoke sin, by granting licence to sin,
according to Laws that have no other honest end, but
only to permit the fulfilling of obstinate lust, how is
God not made the contradicter of himself? No man
denies that best things may be abus'd: but it is a Rule
resulting from many pregnant expeeriences, that
what doth most harm in the abusing, us'd rightly
doth most good. And such a good to take away from
honest men, for being abus'd by such as abuse all
things, is the greatest abuse of all. That the whole
Law is no further useful, than as a man uses it
lawfully, S. Paul teaches 1 Tim. 1. And that Christian
liberty may be us'd for an occasion to the flesh, the
same Apostle confesses, Gal. 5. yet thinks not of
removing it for that, but bids us rather stand fast in
the liberty wherwith Christ hath freed us, and not
be held again in the yoke of bondage. The very
permission which Christ gave to Divorce for
Adultery, may be foully abus'd, by any whose
hardness of heart can either feign Adultery, or dares
commit, that he may divorce. And for this cause the
Pope, and hitherto the Church of England, forbid all
divorce from the bond of Marriage, tho' for openest
Adultery. If then it be righteous to hinder for the
fear of abuse, that which God's Law, notwithstanding
that caution, hath warranted to be done, doth not
our righteousness come short of Antichrist? or do we
not rather herein conform our selves to his
unrighteousness in this undue and unwise fear? For
God regards more to relieve by this Law the just
complaints of good men, than to curb the licence of
wicked men, to the crushing withal, and the
overwhelming of his afflicted servants. He loves
more that his Law should look with pity upon the
difficulties of his own, than with rigor upon the
boundless riots of them who serve another Master,
and hinder'd here by the strictness, will break
another way to worse enormities. If this Law
therfore have any good reasons for which God gave
it, and no intention of giving scope to lewdness, but
as abuse by accident comes in with every good Law,
and every good thing, it cannot be wisdom in us,
while we can content us with God's wisdom, nor can
be purity, if his purity will suffice us, to except
against this Law, as if it foster'd licence. But if they
affirm this Law had no other end, but to permit
obdurat lust, because it would be obdurat, making
the Law of God intentionally to proclaim and enact
Sin lawful, as if the will of God were become sinful, or
Sin stronger than his direct and law-giving will, the
men would be admonish'd to look well to it, that while
they are so eager to shut the door against licence,
they do open a worse door to blasphemy. And yet
they shall be here further shewn their iniquity;
what more foul common sin among us than
drunkenness? And who can be ignorant, that if the
importation of Wine, and the use of all strong drink,
were forbid, it would both clean rid the possibility of
committing that odious vice, and men might
afterwards live happily and healthfully without the
use of those intoxicating liquors. Yet who is there
the severest of them all, that ever propounded to
lose his Sack, his Ale, toward the certain abolishing of
so great a Sin? Who is there of them, the holiest,
that less loves his rich canary at meals, tho' it be
fetcht from places that hazard the Religion of them
who fetch it, and tho' it make his Neighbour drunk
out of the same Tun? While they forbid not therfore
the use of that liquid Merchandize, which forbidden
would utterly remove a most loathsome sin, and not
impair either the health or the refreshment of
mankind, supply'd many other ways; why do they
forbid a Law of God, the forbidding wherof brings into
excessive bondage oftimes the best of men, and
betters not the worse? He to remove a national vice,
will not pardon his cups, nor think it concerns him to
forbear the quaffing of that outlandish Grape, in his
unnecessary fulness, tho' other men abuse it never
so much; nor is he so abstemious as to intercede with
the Magistrate that all matter of drunkenness be
banish'd the Commonwealth; and yet for the fear of a
less inconvenience unpardonably requires of his
brethren, in their extreme necessity, to debar
themselves the use of God's permissive Law, tho' it
might be their saving, and no man's indangering the
more. Thus this peremptory strictness we may
discern of what sort it is, how unequal and how
unjust.
But it will breed confusion. What confusion it
would breed, God himself took the care to prevent in
the fourth verse of this Chapter, that the divorc'd
being married to another, might not return to her
former husband. And Justinian's Law counsels the
same in his Title of Nuptials. And what confusion else
can there be in separation, to separate upon extreme
urgency, the religious from the irreligious, the fit
from the unfit, the willing from the wilful, the abus'd
from the abuser? Such a separation is quite
contrary to confusion. But to bind and mix together
holy with atheist, heavenly with hellish, fitness with
unfitness, light with darkness, antipathy with
antipathy, the injur'd with the injurer, and force
them into the most inward nearness of a detested
union, this doubtless is the most horrid, the most
unnatural mixture, the greatest confusion that can
be confus'd.
Thus by this plain and Christian Talmud,
vindicating the Law of God from irreverent and
unwary expostions, I trust, where it shall meet with
intelligible perusers, some stay at least of men's
thoughts will be obtain'd, to consider these many
prudent and righteous ends of this divorcing
permission: That it may have, for the great Author's
sake, hereafter some competent allowance to be
counted a little purer than the prerogative of a legal
and public ribaldry, granted to that holy seed. So
that from hence, we shall hope to find the way still
more open to the reconciling of those places which
treat this matter in the Gospel. And thither now
without interruption the course of method brings us.